bila buat benda yang tak pernah buat.

Pernah tak korang buat sesuatu yang korang tak pernah buat?

Dulu, masa tinggal dengan family (sebelum kahwin) saya tak pernah menyiang ikan darat / sungai seperti ikan keli, ikan haruan dan segala jenis ikan darat. Sebabnya, my family tak makan ikan darat hanya makan ikan laut sahaja. Jadi saya tidak didedahkan dengan ikan darat, nak siang mcm mane, nak masak mcm mane dsb-nya.

Selepas kahwin, sebab kahwin dengan penggemar ikan darat dan kaki pancing, saya belajar sedikit sebanyak. Dah tahu nama ikan darat yang pelik-pelik seperti ikan 'kenjeng', ikan patung, ikan jaws..haha, gurau je ikan jaws tu. Oleh sebab selalu juga temankan suami pergi memancing dah tahu lah kalau rupa ikan seperti itu, namanya adalah ini. Kadang-kadang boleh salah jugak.

Saya amat geli dengan ikan yang badannya licin seperti ikan keli dan ikan haruan. Saya pun tak lalu makan kalau dimasak gulai sebab isinya lembik dan kalau ada kepalanya, kepalanya seakan kepala ular. Nak dijadikan cerita, pada suatu hari, my hubby's aunt nak menyiang ikan darat. Ada beberapa ekor ikan darat tak silap saya. Bila dah turn ikan keli, saya terus berlari menyorok belakang peti gara-gara takut ikan keli meloncat dan terpijak. eii geli okey.

Setiap kali tiba giliran ikan keli untuk 'disembelih' saya for sure akan berlari jauh-jauh.

Unfortunately, langit tidak selalunya cerah. Hari ni saya terpaksa DIY ikan keli. Saya hanya memberi perhatian bila ikan tersebut sudah mati disiang suami. (Tak tahu betul ke tak guna istilah mati). Suami request suruh buat ikan keli masak sambal (Ah, senang je).

Cari-cari ikan, mak aii kepala nya ada lagi. Terus saya naik geli geleman. Yakni selepas itu, saya terus panggil suami untuk buang kepala dengan misai dia yang panjang-panjang tu. euww.. Malangnya nasib saya hari ni sebab suami kata DO IT YOURSELF!! hehe. Taklah, suami soft spoken, mana boleh cakap macam tu dengan isteri. isteri kan pompuan. pompuan kan sensitif, nanti langsung campak senduk kuali tak nak masak. ye dak??

'pergi la buat, bila lagi sayang nak blaja'lembut je dia cakap dan terus sambung tengok national geography. grrr..

Pergilah isteri yang setia penyayang (eceh) ini ke dapur tengok ikan keli pulak.
'ei, aku nak buat macam mana la ikan ni, tangkap, lepas, tangkap, lepas. licin.' Bila saya dah give up, terus capai towel, hah! pegang. Letak atas papan pemotong, KRAPPP! bercerailah kepala dari badan. Sedia untuk dimasak untuk dimakan bersama suami.

padahal nak masak sambal tak payah potong kepala, sebab manisnya kat kepala. Tapi sebab gara-gara geli dengan misai ikan keli, terus dipotong kepalanya. Inilah, gara-gara nyamuk seekor, dibakar satu kelambu (betul ke peribahasa nih)

tadaaa....

sekadar gambar hiasan.

Seronok juga belajar benda baru yakni apa yang suami suka makan, apa yang suami suka buat bila masa lapang dan sebagainya. Lepas ni nak rajin-rajin lagi belajar masak apa yang suami suka makan dengan nenek dan ibu mertua. InsyaAllah. Makan-makan makan.

p/s: Tips nak hilangkan lendir pada badan ikan keli, ambil gandum dan garam. Lumurkan pada ikan keli kemudian baru basuh.

p/s/s: ikan keli harus dikelar halus-halus sebab tulangnya sangat banyak. nanti tak seksa sangat nak makan. Kalau nak goreng, haruslah ditutup sebab ikan keli boleh meletup (hahaha).

tiga bintang setengah

Salam.

Semalam saya keluar dengan suami semata-mata nak tengok wayang dengan adik-adik. Sampai kat mesra mall, saya terus grab ke kaunter tiket untuk beli tiket. adik-adik n cousin decide nak tgk ombak rindu. Tapi tiket dah habis n diorang terpaksa tengok Datin Ghairah.wakakaka:p

My husband n me decide to watch this movie:


Best. Saya kasik 3 bintang 1/2!!! Rasa nak layan movie lagi!!!!

SOLAT SELEPAS HAID : PERKARA YG DIPANDANG RINGAN.

Pengetahuan Islam kepada sesiapa yang bernama wanita ISLAM!!!

Kebanyakkan perempuan/wanita/ muslimah (wanita Islam) tak berapa perasan ATAU lebih malang lagi jika memang tak tahu menahu akan perkara ini... Ilmu Fekah, khususnya BAB HAID yang berkaitan dengan diri wanita itu sendiri amat kurang dikuasai atau difahami secara menyeluruh oleh kebanyakkan wanita Islam...kenapa hal ini boleh terjadi?? Amat susah untuk mencari seorang guru/ustazah/ ...yang betul-betul pakar dalam bab 'Orang-orang Perempuan ini' kecuali terpaksa@mesti dirujuk kepada lelaki/ustaz- ustaz yang bernama LELAKI jugak...(saya rasa ramai yang bersetuju dengan pandangan saya )

Contohnya yang paling simple ; bila ditanya kepada kebanyakkan wanita Islam ; "adakah wajib bagi seorang wanita Islam menqhada'kan solat mereka yang ditinggalkan ketika haid?" pastinya kita akan mendengar jawapan daripada kebanyakkan mereka mengatakan: "alaa...itu soalan mudah jee..bila 'datang period' maka solat tuu tak perlu qadha, yang perlu qadha hanya puasa jee..itulah yang kami belajar sejak mula-mula 'bergelar wanita' dulu"

Jika dibuat pantauan nescaya jawapan seperti di ataslah yang akan kita jumpa... Sebenarnya TAK SEBEGITU MUDAH bagi seorang muslimah nak meninggalkan solat mereka walaupun dirinya didatangi haid!!! sekalipun. Hal ini boleh dirujuk di dalam kitab Ihya' Ulumuddin karangan Hujjatul Islam Imam Al-Ghazali yang mashur.

Kitab yang padanya ada ilmu yang berkaitan Tasauf dan padanya juga perbahasan Fekah yang luas, inilah bukti kehebatan ulama' terdahulu..

Dalam BAB TIGA :

" Fi adab Mua'sharah Wama Yujzi Fi Dawamun Nikah..." perkara YANG KETUJUH disebut dengan jelas dalam kitab tersebut : PERKARA YANG BERKAITAN DENGAN HAID: Penjelasan (bayan) terhadap solat yang perlu diqadha bagi perempuan yang didatangi haid :

1. Jika perempuan dalam keadaan haid mendapati darah haid itu berhenti (dengan melihatnya) sebelum masuknya waktu Maghrib, kira-kira sempat dia solat asar sebanyak satu rakaat, maka baginya wajib qadha solat zohor dan asar.

2. Jika perempuan mendapati darah haidnya kering sebelum masuknya waktu subuh, kira-kira sempat baginya solat Isya' sebanyak satu rakaat, maka wajib baginya qadha solat maghrib dan Isya'. " Dan hal ini (qadha solat yang ditinggalkan semasa haid) adalah sekurang-kurang perkara yang wajib diketahui oleh setiap wanita Islam" (Imam Al-Ghazali)

HURAIAN MASALAH :

1. Kenapa perlu diqadha solat Asar dan Zohor?

- Kerana perempuan itu hanya menyedari keringnya haid masih dalam waktu Asar, maka baginya wajib solat asar (selepas mandi hadas)

2. Kenapa pula solat Zohor juga perlu diqadha sama?

- Kerana di dalam hukum menjama' (menghimpun solat bagi orang musafir) solat Asar boleh dijama' dan diqosarkan bersama solat Zohor.

- Kerana kecuaian wanita itu sendiri (dari melihat haidnya kering atau tidak), boleh jadi haidnya sudah kering dalam waktu Zohor lagi, langkah Ihtiyat ( menjaga hukum) maka perempuan itu juga perlu mengqhada solat Zohor.

3. Dalam perkara solat subuh pun sama : -perempuan itu hanya menyedari darah haidnya kering, sebelum masuk waktu subuh, kira-kira sempat solat Isyak satu rakaat (selepas mandi hadas) maka wajib baginya solat Isya' sebab darahnya kering masih dalam waktu Isya'.

-Solat Isya' juga boleh dijama' (bagi musafir) dengan solat Maghrib, maka baginya juga perlu diqadha solat maghrib.

-Di atas kecuainnya (tidak betul-betul melihat darahnya kering atau tidak dalam setiap waktu solat) maka boleh jadi darahnya sudah kering dalam waktu maghrib lagi (sebab proses keringnya darah itu berlaku secara perlahan-lahan, mungkin perempuan itu hanya menyedarinya dalam waktu subuh, hakikatnya proses pengeringan itu sudah lama berlaku)

-maka langkah ihtiyat (menjaga hukum) maka adalah bagi perempuan itu perlu di qadha juga solat maghribnya.

Sila rujuk : Kitab Ihya' Ulumuddin (Jilid ke 2) cetakan Darul Nahwan Nil / Darul Haram Lil Turath, Kaherah.

Diharapkan tulisan ini memberi kesedaran kepada seluruh yang bergelar Muslimah untuk lebih mendalami diri mereka dengan ilmu 'Fiqhul Nisa' ini yang berkaitan dengan diri mereka sendiri!!!

TOLONG SEBARKAN KEPADA ORANG LAIN DEMI SAHAM AKHIRAT ANDA !!!

(Sumber dari teman-teman di facebook)

just for fun.

IF you were born on the:
1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month you are number 1.
2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then you are number 2.
3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then you are number 3.
4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then you are Number 4.
5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then you are number 5.
6th, 15th, 24th... of any month then you are number 6.
7th, 16th, 25th of any month then you are number 7.
8th, 17th, 26th of any month then you are number 8.
9th, 18th, 27th of any month then you are number 9.

Number 1

You are smart, a straight talker, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest, jealous on a competitive basis, kind hearted, temperamental, friendly, and popular. You always want to be on the top and most likely to be independent. You are most likely to fall in love at a young age, but will marry once you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views and you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future. If you are guy you will be very popular. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and talented in numerous areas. But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you & your name down. Because of your intelligence, some might hate you. You are a pioneer, independent & original your best match is 4, 6, 8 while a good match would be with 3,5,7

Number 2

No matter what, every one will love you because you are ruled by the Moon. You day dream a lot, you have a very low-self esteem, you need to have a back up for every move in your life, you are very unpredictable. You tend to change according to time and circumstances, selfish, have a very strong sense of musical and artistic talent and powerful verbal communication. You can be sweet as an angel and can be ruthless when double-crossed. Some might say you have a sixth sense. You will become a poet, writer, an artist or a businessperson. You are not strong in love, so your relationship will be in disarray until you settle down. If you are a girl, you will be responsible for your family. If you are a man, you tend to get involve in fights & arguments in the family. You will sacrifice your life for your family. You are gentle, intuitive with a broad vision. You make a well-balanced person. Your best match is 2, 7,5, and 9 no other people can put up with you!!!

Number 3

You are hardhearted and selfish most of the time. You always tend to have lots of problems within your family in the early stages but you will be able to cope with everything. You seem to have your way in everything. And from birth you would always have to work hard to achieve anything you want. You always make a point to set examples on others, especially the younger ones. Generally you are not a cool person. It's not easy dealing with you. A tough player you are! But once you are comfortable with someone, it will be a lasting friendship. You always earn respect from others. Your Ilk seems to have lots of worries and problems but they won't be for long. You will have brilliant kids! You love money a bit too much so temptation will push you to try endlessly. You will look after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being generous and kind (except for men born on the 21st). You love your freedom, creative and ambitious, a person who brings beauty, hope & joy to this world!!! Your best match 6 and 9. Good match 1, 3, and 5

Number 4

You are very stubborn, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool and helpful. You might repel people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you area man, as you gifted are with understanding other people's problems. If you are a girl, you excel in your studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of your time with girl friends and you tend to have too much fun with your mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get on with their life and you will be left empty handed. So be careful! You love to spend. Your positive side is that you are always around to help family and friends. You always fall in love with those younger than you. You often live with disappointments but you will take good care of your family. You need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart (ahaks!). And beware of your relationships too. You are radical, patient, persistent, and a hit old-fashioned; you live with foundation & order. Your best match 1, 8. Good match 5, 6, and 7

Number 5

You are very popular and you can get things done only by talking. Even to your enemies! You are business-minded and like to do things spontaneously. You will be famous if you get involved in any business. Your friends and families will always ask for your help, and you are the one actually with the money to help your friends. You will have more than one relationship, but when you settle down you tend to be selfish. You tend to go for other relationships - even if you are married at times because of your popularity. You tend to get along easily with anyone because the numbers is a middle number. You love freedom and changes. You learn your life through your personal experiences. Your best match 1, 2, Good match 6, 8.

Number 6

Ooopppss... You were born to enjoy! You don't care about others. I mean you always wanted to have a lifetime of enjoyment. You will excel in either education or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people who you think are nice), and popular. All good things come easily to you. Your mind and body is just made perfect for love. You are loveable by any number. But if you are a number 6 men, you will be involved in more than a few relationships until you get married. If you are a girl, most of you will get married/engaged early. You are a caring person towards your family and friends. You are a person of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good judgment, and after all you can heal this world's wounds to make peace for everyone because you have the great power and caring talent to take the world of love one step further.. Your best match 7, 6, and 9. Good match 4, 5

Number 7

You are realistic, confident, happy, and talented in education, music, art, singing, and most importantly in acting. You also have a bad temper! You value your family status a lot; you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls. Most of the number 7s faces lots of problems with their married life. Only a few are happy. You have everything in your life but with worries throughout your lifetime. You need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don't, then you might end-up being single. You are born to contribute to everyone's joy. Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1, 4

Number 8

You have a very strong personality and people will find it hard to understand you. You are more likely to suffer in your younger years. You might be also the one responsible to look out for your family. You often suffer all the way through life. You will learn life in a very practical way. You are the one who will fight for justice and may even die in the war too. You are normally very reserved with a handful of friends and most of the time, live life alone and always prepared to help others. However, once you settle down, (which is often late), then your had lucks will disappear. You will face unexpected problems such as encountering poisonous animals, and accidents. You are highly- disciplined, persistence, and courageous, and it is your strength that will take you to success. You are a great part of a family team. You are a fighter! Your Best match 1, 4 and 8. Good match 5

Number 9

You guys are the most incompatible people in the world. You are so strong, physically and mentally. You often have big-aims. You will work hard and will think it's still hard to get there, even if you already have gotten there! Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will have to fight in life. You are respected by others. You were however very naughty in your childhood, and often got beaten up by your parents and had been involved in fights and you seemed to have suffered lots of injuries. But when you grow older you become calm and will fall into the quiet and dignified macho type. Love is not an easy matter for you. You are however good in engineering or banking jobs because people always trust you. Your family life is very good, but you will always worry over your children. Your finer qualities are that you are humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate. You are born to achieve targets and serve every one equally without any prejudice. You are a role model for everyone. Your best match 3, 5, 6, and 9. Good match 2.

p/s: just for fun. Jangan percaya 100%. Mungkin hanya kebetulan:p

the pictures called back the memories:-)

Hai readers!

Pernah tak review balik gambar-gambar lama dan kemudian rindu-rindu pulak kenangan-kenangan silam? Hari ni saya mempunyai masa untuk update entry tentang itu.

Tak banyak kerja? Kerja hari ni tak banyak sangat tapi saya terasa stress pulak sebab tak dapat solve problem. jadi, saya update lah blog.:)

PICTURE 1: POCO-POCO DI OFIS

Gambar kat atas adalah aktiviti poco-poco di ofis lama. Ni termasuk dalam HSE aktiviti. Banyak lagi aktiviti kami seperti Monthly BMI Checking, 5S dsbgnya. Nampak tak saya yang berbaju kemeja hijau tu, yang kecik-kecik molek (suatu ketika dahulu). Sekarang saya dah tak muat dah baju kemeja tu, jadi faham-faham je lah. Rindunya saya pada zaman kurus dahulu. Time ni berat saya hanya 48 kg. (eh eh sama jugak sebelum berumahtangga, tapi kenapa dulu kecik sekarang besar). Bye bye baju kemeja.

PICTURE 2: MY CONVOCATION DAY

Gambar kat atas adalah 4hb Oktober 2009. Em abaikan date kat gambar, kamera suzi salah setting date. Yang tengah-tengah tu namanya Suzila Yanti dan yang tudung hitam tu Marsilla. Diorang ni roomate saya pada tahun akhir. Rindunya zaman belajar di utem, zaman layan movie, zaman main game, zaman berangan-angan dan zaman dapat ptptn..kahkah, itu pun nak masuk jugak.

PICTURE 3: SHORT HOLIDAY @ PULAU KAPAS

Seronoknya tengok gambar ni. Time ni dah kerja, so ada rezeki lebih sikit pergi bercuti dengan kawan-kawan. Nampak tak t-shirt putih yang saya pakai tu? Kalau sekarang JANGAN HARAP MUAT. sadis kan. Sekejap je saya dapat merasai zaman kurus saya. Dahlah kurus, ketinggian pun kurang, tak ke comel?haha tak pasal-pasal.

PICTURE 4: HANG OUT WITH MY LOVELY COUSIN

Rinduuuuu... i miss our old day...huhu. Sekarang tak dapat lagi kan hang out sama-sama kan. Dulu dapat tgk wayang same-sama, main boling sama-sama, main pool sama-sama. Gosip tak pernah miss kan? Miss you la..huhuhu.

PICTURE 5: BTN DI TESDEC

Kursus BTN yang paling sedikit ahlinya dan perempuan pun paling sikit. Boleh duduk dalam satu bilik je. 7 orang perempuan kot kalau tak silap. Lelaki concure kursus BTN kali ni. Best Best Best, Super Best.

PICTURE 6: MAKAN TIME

Look at my face:) tembam kan. Ni gambar lepas saya engaged kot. Rindu saat ini. Dulu kalau malas masak, selalu makan kat luar. Pakat ramai-ramai keluar ramai-ramai. Sekarang ni pun masih ada tradisi macam ni, cuma saya dah terkecuali.sob sob.

PICTURE 7 ; MY WEDDING DAY

Macam tak percaya pun ada sebab saya dah berjaya menamatkan zaman bujang. Dulu selalu tengok orang yang kahwin, sekarang saya pulak yang kahwin. Permulaan sesuatu yang baru dan challenging dalam hidup. hmmm...

p/s: i just miss my old days.

p/s/s: Masa hadapan tak tahu la mcm mane pulak. Nanti ada rezeki saya dan suami, saya come out pulak gambar baby iye..hehe. Amin.